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Friday, September 4, 2009

Music for Sexings

Marty Friedman, ex-Megadeth, released an album a few years back called "Music For Speeding". Listening to it today, I wondered: what kind of music do you like for SEXING?

Do you prefer the intricate strains of classical music? Perhaps some Mozart or Beethoven caressing your ears while the two (or more) of you caress each other?

Maybe you like to get down and dirty with each other with some heavy industrial playing. Fucking in a dark room with candles lit and Nine Inch Nails in the background is a hell of an experience.

Or maybe you want to go at it hard and heavy, with some pure thrash. Metallica, Rammstein, Slayer, whatever. Warning: this can cause friction burns if you don't moderate the tempo.

Perhaps you like the pure soul of Barry White or Marvin Gaye, silky smooth voices pouring like melted honey over your bodies.

And drifting amidst clouds, borne up on a tide of new age from Enya or B-Tribe, is a lovely thing. Ethereal and inchoate, you and your partner the only "real" things in the room.

Some like more musical experimentation; why not put on some classic jazz? Mahavishnu Orchestra, Branford Marsalis, Miles Davis and John Coltrane are great ways to explore music while exploring each other. 

Of course, there's nothing quite like the raw emotion of the classic bluesmen like Robert Johnson, Johnny Winter, or Stevie Ray Vaughan. You might find yourself crying, or you might find you and your partner rutting like animals in heat. It depends.

If you're up for a really athletic and extended session, just cue up a couple of extended trance / electro mixes and you're set for hours. Paul van Dyk, DJ Tiesto, Orbital, the Crystal Method and Paul Oakenfold will keep you pumping till dawn -- and onward.

Maybe you just want something relentlessly cheerful. The 80s were a great time for that, so put on some Culture Club or Duran Duran and bang each other with just your leg warmers and Swatch watches on.

Or maybe you want something radio-popular. There's such a huge range here -- from Sting to Shakira, Maroon 5 and Nickelback, Peter Gabriel and Jackson Browne and more. Something for all tastes.

I like different music for different moods....or sometimes no soundtrack whatsoever. After all, the best soundtrack of all is the soundtrack you're making with your partner. Where's the fun in quiet sex? Make some noise! Cry it out! Moan and gasp and thrash and scream. Get off with that aural fixation.

-- PB

11 comments:

Luna Mauvaise said...

OMG, Swatch watches! I feel a little older now.

I am musically schizophrenic...I love it all, for different moods and occasions.

I don't much care what's in the background, as long as it doesn't drown out pants and growls and filthy instructions.

The Panserbjørne said...

Sounds like you're pretty much the same as me, then. It's SO much better to be open for many different things. In the matter of musical choice as much as with other adult pursuits. :)

Mmmm, "pants and growls and filthy instructions". You always manage to pick just the right phrase.

-- PB

Gray said...

The music is such a minor part to the whole scenario but always adds just a little bit. Though I tend to agree with you, different types for different moods!

And oh yes, Luna always has the best words for ANY given situation. *sighs*;)

The Panserbjørne said...

Gray: Oh yes, she does. One of the best writers in this sphere I've found.

Different types for different moods is a very watchword. It's fun to mix things up.

-- PB

frances said...

sometimes we randomly have music on but it's not a prerequisite. i personally perfer the sounds of sex. the panting. the moans. skin contact. grr...getting myself all worked up thinking about it.

The Panserbjørne said...

Frances: There should never be any prerequisites for sex -- other than a healthy lust for each other, of course. I do love the sounds of sex myself, but music does make a nice accompaniment sometimes.

-- PB

Daniel said...

@frances: Having said that though... You still DO owe me a Girl Talk lap dance. ;-)

The Panserbjørne said...

Daniel: Hahahaha. Now I know about it too, so we can both pester her about it until she gives it up. So to speak. :)

-- PB

Daniel said...

Good plan! Glad you've got my back. ;-)

The Panserbjørne said...

Daniel: Oh, of course. She seems like she can be a little stubborn sometimes, so we'd have to tag-team her. Er. So to speak. :)

-- PB

frances said...

You two are rotten!!! YOu'll never wear me down!!!!