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Thursday, September 2, 2010

Am I a Dom?

Surfacing from the flood of work that has engulfed me THIS week, too. Can't wait till things back off a bit and I can devote more time here.

Some of you may have noticed that I've added a Formspring box on the right for the curious. If you want to know something about me, feel free to ask! You don't need a Formspring account, or anything else -- it's just a way to send me queries if you feel like being anonymous, or if you don't want to send me an email.

As it happens, I got my first Formspring question yesterday. Someone asked me:

"Are you a Dom?"

In the traditionally used sense, where the Dom in question is into BDSM or has a "mistress" or "slave" or "sub" that he controls, I'm not. Oh, I have dominant tendencies -- I think a cursory glance at many of the entries here would tell you that -- but it's not my primary mode of operation.

I do confess a few sexy ladies I've talked to through this journal have expressed a wish to let me dominate them, and it's a powerful attraction. Nothing's ever come of it, though. I talk a big game, you see. :)

Anyhow, there's your answer. Not a Dom in the traditional sense, just somebody with dominant tendencies occasionally.

If you want to ask me something, what's keeping you? G'wan, use the little widget on the right. Or, y'know, send me an email and I'll answer privately. Your choice.

See you all tomorrow for FFF. Thanks to those who've told me they're playing along so far.

-- PB


Chocolate Puss said...


The Panserbjørne said...

Puss: What, you want to add your name to the list? :)

-- PB

Chocolate Puss said...

LOL! Don't tempt me. ;-)

The Panserbjørne said...

Puss: Woman, tempting is what I DO. If you're looking for the Voice of Conscience, you won't find it here. Jiminy Cricket I ain't. ;)

-- PB

Advizor said...

I once described myself as an "accidental Dom" when my friend and I decided to explore that area together on a whim. It's fun, but not, as you said, my primary approach.

Cheeky Minx said...

Mmmm, about that list, PB... ;)

(I do wonder now if there might also be a little Sub in you, too...)

The Panserbjørne said...

Advizor: I think that's why I'd have to say "no" overall. I'm a trisexual, if you like that phrase -- try anything once. Twice if I like it. But the "dom" thing wouldn't do for me as a steady diet.

Minx: Oh, baby, you're already on that list, trust me on that one. And yes -- there's some sub in me too. I like all ends of the spectrum of sexuality, so playing in subspace would be fun too.

-- PB